Stand up on the day and say words you're proud of, in your own voice.
You know exactly how you feel about your beloved. Putting it into words you can say out loud, in front of everyone you love, is the hard part. This course walks you through it, one step at a time, until your vows are written and you feel proud of every line.
I'm Sinéad, I'm a wedding celebrant and helping couples find the words is what I do for a living.
"This course felt like a reassuring hug!" Jules
Three short sessions. Nine videos, around five minutes each, with a small task after each one to get you writing.
Gather your material → write a draft you're proud of → deliver it like you mean it.
Work through it in an evening, a weekend, or a few weeks.
It's yours for life.

Instant lifetime access. One simple payment. Backed by a 7-day refund.

Plenty of couples sit down to write their vows and freeze. The feelings are huge and the blank page feels even bigger. You want them to sound like you, to land in the room, and to say the thing you actually mean. That pressure is exactly why so many people leave their vows until the last panicked week. It doesn't have to go that way.


The Vows is a self-paced course that takes you from blank page to finished vows you're genuinely proud of. It brings together the exact prompts, exercises and guidance I use with couples every day, so you can do it in your own time, at home, with none of the overwhelm.

This is for you if…

  • you feel everything for your partner, then go blank the moment you try to write it down. 
  • you want vows that sound unmistakably like you and your relationship
  • you're short on time and want a clear path to follow. 
  • you'd love a bit of reassurance that you're doing this right. 
  • you've been putting it off and want it finally done.

You'll leave with...

  • words that finally match everything you feel. 
  • vows that sound unmistakably like you. 
  • a simple process that gets them written. 
  • the confidence that you're doing it well. 
  • your vows finished, ready, and one less thing on your mind.

Here's what's inside

Three short sessions. Nine bite-sized videos of around five minutes each, with a small task after every one to get you writing. Work through it in an evening, over a weekend, or across a few weeks. It's yours to take at your own pace. 


Session One: Gather  

Before you write a single word, you find your raw material: your memories, the way you see your partner, the small things only you notice. You finish this session with pages to draw from and a clear brief for your own vows.  

  • Your Love Story 
  • Who They Are To You 
  • Your Style 

 

Session Two: Write  

You turn everything you've gathered into real vows: an opening that settles your nerves, a middle that says the true things, and a closing that lands in the silence after. You finish this session with a complete first draft.  

  • Your Opening Line 
  • The Middle 
  • Your Closing  


Session Three: Deliver  
Vows are made to be spoken aloud, and this is where yours become something to say rather than something to read. You'll learn to deliver them so they sound like you, how much to rehearse, whether to use a card, and exactly what to expect on the day. 
 

  • Reading Aloud 
  • Rehearsing 
  • The Day Itself  


No complicated frameworks. Three short sessions, some of your time, and the words that belong at your wedding.

What Couples Say

"Just watched the opening Welcome video for the Vows course - and it was like a warm reassuring hug - immediately removing my apprehension and fear into excitement to get started! I will let you know how I get on - but WOW what an opening"

Jules, June 2026

"Had my wedding over this past weekend but just wanted to say your videos really helped with my vows! I was pretty daunted by the prospect but your series on how to write them really broke it down into manageable parts that I could focus on. Much appreciated!!"

Jake, May 2026

"We did the course. It was incredible! Just a quick and dirty way for us to gather our thoughts, without feeling overwhelmed or having to spend too much time. It really helped us cut through the noise and get to the things we wanted to say most. And we're so happy with how it turned out!"

Amber & Chris, June 2026

  • I'm not a writer. Can I still write my own wedding vows?
    Yes. In fact, you're exactly who this course is for. You don't need to be a writer to write meaningful wedding vows. You just need to know how you feel about your partner. Each short lesson gives you one simple prompt, so you're never left wondering what to write next. As a wedding celebrant, I've helped hundreds of couples write wedding vows that sound natural, personal and completely their own, and that's exactly what this course is designed to help you do.
  • Will my wedding vows sound generic?
    No. The course is designed to help you write wedding vows that couldn't belong to anyone else. The first session helps you uncover the stories, moments and details that are unique to your relationship, and every exercise builds on those. There are no templates to copy and no fill-in-the-blank formulas. By the end, you'll have wedding vows that sound like you because they're built from your own memories, your own voice and your own relationship.
  • How long does the wedding vows course take?
    The course includes three short sessions made up of nine bite-sized videos, each around five minutes long, followed by a simple writing exercise. Some couples write their wedding vows in a single evening, while others spread the course over several weeks. You can work through it entirely at your own pace.
  • When do I get access to the wedding vows course?
    Immediately. As soon as you join, you'll have instant access to every lesson. The course is yours for life, so you can start writing your wedding vows today and revisit the videos whenever you need them before your wedding.
  • I'm nervous about saying my wedding vows in front of everyone. Will this help?
    Absolutely. The final section is all about delivering your wedding vows with confidence. We cover reading versus memorising, how much to practise, using vow cards, managing nerves and what it actually feels like to stand up and say the words. You'll know exactly what to expect on the day.
  • Can we use this course for any kind of wedding ceremony?
    Yes. Whether you're having a civil ceremony, a humanist ceremony, a religious wedding or something completely personal, the process for writing meaningful wedding vows is the same. The course helps you find your own words, so it works for every kind of wedding and every kind of couple.
  • Our wedding is very soon. Is it too late to write our wedding vows?
    Not at all. If your wedding is only days away, you still have time. You can work through the entire course in a single evening, and many couples finish writing their wedding vows much closer to the wedding than they expected. Start tonight and you could have a complete first draft before bed.
  • What if I get stuck writing my wedding vows?
    Most people do at some point. The course is designed around the places couples usually get stuck when writing their wedding vows, so each lesson helps you move past the next hurdle with a simple writing exercise. If you'd like extra support, I also offer one-to-one wedding vow coaching. Just send me an email and we'll arrange a session.
  • Do you give wedding vow examples?
    Yes, but they're not included for you to copy them. The goal isn't to write wedding vows that sound like someone else's. It's to help you write wedding vows that sound unmistakably like you.
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The 7-day "words finally flowing" guarantee 

Try the course. If you go through it and it hasn't helped you get your vows moving within 7 days, email me and I'll refund you in full. No hoops, no awkwardness. The worst case is you've spent a few quiet minutes finding out.